MISCONCEPTIONS ABOUT GOTHIC PART I

FIRST MISCONCEPTION - GOTHIC PEOPLE ALWAYS MOODY

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Haha no we are not. ~Always~ is bit over. Everyone sometimes feeling sad. So do Goth. But u all need to understand these, ~the past~, ~the dream~ and ~death~ are strong in Gothic life but we don't simply share it with others. Ok conclusion.. Gothic people is really fun to hang out with.

Gothic people is very very open mind. We won't simply bang you with our ideology.

We keep our sad inside, we don't want to share our sadness with others.

If you hang out with gothic people you will see we always smile and laugh

We love to hide our sad. We only share our sad with the one we love. We only share our sad with the one who will understand us or accept us.

Hehe so i could say this~ if u have friend who love goth, but she or he always smile and never show his/her sadness, well means that she/he didn't accept u~ sorry my opinion only

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SECOND MISCONCEPTION - GOTHIC PEOPLE ANTI SOSIAL

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We might seems like we prefer to stay silent, arrogant or boring, or untouchable because we always with our closest friends, but trust me, chatting with gothic people is fun. We know how to maintain conversation if u give us response. We may lack of skill to tell story, or write article, but we quite good at chatting.

Because of our weakness in telling story, that is why some of us telling their story by songs, dressing, touch, face expressions, dance, or poem.

Friends, lover, and family is important to us. We need friends. We don't want to lose them. That is why we keep our hatred inside (not like Emo~ they prefer to release their emotion)

So if u falling in love with a Gothic girl, give her a chance. Trust me, gothic girl are not that arrogant (i can say that ~If u being arrogant, u are not real goth~ my opinion only)

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THIRD MISCONCEPTION - GOTHIC PEOPLE LOVE DEATH
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We bound strongly with death but we not love death. We don't want our lover to be left alone. We don't want our family is sad. We may dead inside but we won't let our loved one feels that we are dead.

Like i said before. Gothic people keep emotion inside, they do explain what they feel to others by creative ways, their own way, but it could only be understand by other gothic people, but we don't care because we don't want our beloved feeling sad.

But still we want to feel the sense of belonging. Sense of belonging in gothic people is strong, that is why we hope, by our own way of 'release' emotion, we will be found by other gothic people
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FOURTH MISCONCEPTION - GOTHIC IS EMO
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Although Gothic and Emo come from same root, but Gothic is different with Emo.

I'll explain more later, but one think should tell here,

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We love dream, we keep sadness-hatred inside own heart, only our beloved one could read our sadness. So, we only show happiness to other. We quite polite, we are not arrogant. We love fun, we love chatting, we love art, we attract to dark, we love the mystery
we sensitive about thought


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Emo love music, emo release emotion not keep, emo is master of emotion, emo is about to apply your emotion to your lifestyle (music, dressing)
emo sensitive about feeling


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Special for my friend ;) Dalila

Shaden - Dunia Belum Berakhir

Dunia belum berakhir

Bila kau putuskan aku

Masih banyak teman-temanku di sini

Menemaniku

Dunia belum berakhir

Bila kau putuskan aku

Wajahku juga nggak jelek-jelek amat
Ada yang mau

Ku pikir-pikir, ku pikir-pikir

Lebih baik aku menyingkir

Ku pikir-pikir, ku pikir-pikir

Lelah… ooh…

Dunia belum berakhir

Bila kau putuskan aku

Paling-paling juga kalau kamu mentok

Balik padaku

Andai kau tahu

Apa yang kurasakan

Andai kau mau, mengerti

Franz Ferdinand - Outsiders

It's been some change
But we're still outsiders
If Everybody's here
Then hell knows we ride alone...

I've seen some years
But you're still my Caesar
With everything I feel
I feel you've already been here

The only difference is all I see is now all that I've seen

it's bright on the outside
The bright love the dark side I know
It's obvious but sometimes you just have to say it so
You don't feel so weak
About being such a freak
alone

In seventeen years
Will you still be Camille
Lee Miller, Gala or whatever
You know what I mean yeah

Love'll die
Lovers fade
But you still remain there
Squeezing in your fingers
What it means for me to be yeah

The only difference is what might be is now what might have been

When you saw me sleeping
You thought I was dreaming
Of you
no I didn't tell you
That the only dream
Is Valium for me

I've seen some years
But you're still my Caesar
With everything I feel
I feel you've already been here

Love'll die
Lovers fade
But you still remain there
Squeezing in your fingers
What it means for me to be yeah

The only difference is what might be is NOW

Kiroro - Best friend (english translation)

I don't have to worry anymore, 

cause you will be by my side when I cry

You always smile at me

I am blessed because you always shine before me

Things that we have missed hastily at time, 

that's the way it is

Faces that always being looked at

Forever hugging each other

Your smile has helped me endless time, you know

Thank you thank you Best Friend

These plenty happiness that I felt at this moment

All the friends that I have here, 

you the best present

I am blessed because you always be by our side

Surely things that I have accomplished here, 

those things too give me strength (change to strength)

Faces that always being looked at

Forever hugging each other

All of your smile has helped me endless time, you know

Thank you thank you Best Friend

Things that we have missed hastily at time,

 that's the way it is

Faces that always being looked at

Forever hugging each other

Your smile has helped me endless time, you know

Thank you thank you Best Friend

Always always always my Best Friend

MISCONCEPTIONS RISE BECAUSE WE DIDN'T KNOW EACH OTHER

Masa ni i masuk kubu freemason pula dan sembang2 dengan mereka. Well I really love my black room and cat analogy dengan 'now this age has achieve its balance' theory

~Klik untuk large size~

Then the admin try to explain about ALL-SEEING EYE

Well i tried to explain dengan guna analogy

VIEW NEVER WRONG

Setahun dulu aku pernah bergaduh cakap dgn seorang Freemason. Sometimes aku pikir wow aku skang pun rasanya takboleh cakap macam ni. Human change~ klik untuk large size

So i think, last last dier terima konsep point of view

(maybe?)

i know, my english is poor

MY GOTHIC IDEOLOGY II

''My dream, it is mine, my past, it is ours"

MY GOTHIC IDEOLOGY I

"The stronger your relationship with Death, The more you will understand about God's Will"

QUESTION THAT I KNOW THE ANSWER BUT I COULDN'T EXPLAIN

A girl asked me

"kau dikurniakan banyak kelebihan dari Allah, kenapa ko masih nak jadi jahat"

Same question brother yang aku anggap sensei aku pernah tanya aku

"Izzat ko special Izzat, tapi kenapa ko ta nak berubah"

Jawapan aku tetap sama

"First, Allah sayang aku. Aku pernah jadi baik, jahat, baik balik, then now i have my own path. Aku takkan dapat answer yang aku nak kalau aku berubah. Not yet. Not now"

Aku percaya kat luar sana ada seorang lagi aku kena jumpa, yang aku bakal jumpa. I know my own future. And I love Allah so much